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Magic of Satir : Practical Skills for Therapists

Categorie : Virginia Satir (ENG)
Auteur : Loeschen, Sharon, Sharon Loeschen
ISBN : 0964134004
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Omschrijving : An "Honest Abe's NLP Emporium" Book Review - Reproduced with permission.
Written and Produced by Andy Bradbury; author of "Develop Your NLP Skills", "NLP for Business Success", etc. At 98 pages in the main text, plus 8 pages of Appendices, this is hardly the sort of volume you could use as a doorstop. It does, however, provide yet more evidence that the best things often come in small packages.
In the brief Preface, Loeschen explains:
"The opportunity for people to learn [Virginia] Satir's methods by watching her at work or by experiencing her workshops was lost with her death. Because of this, I decided to write The Magic of Satir.
In the very next paragraph she also tells us, somewhat revealingly:
It is the premise of this work that much of what Satir did can be successfully learned and used by others. ... You may be surprised to learn that her philosophy and many of her skills are applicable to working with individuals as well as couples and families.
In short, don't expect to see any recognition or reflection of the fact that Virginia Satir's work made a valuable contribution to the early formulation of NLP.
Having said that, the author does include a number of quotes that show very clearly how closely the two schools of thought are related, as in the following examples:
"At the moment we do something, it's the best we know how to do or we would do something different."
"So you are feeling scared about speaking up? How are you scaring yourself?"
"You are encouraged by your progress. What specifically are you doing that is pleasing you?"
"I'm wondering if the two of you would be willing to close your eyes and see yourself being this new way with each other the next time you encounter a difference?"
With all due respect, this text gives little sign that the author has fully understood the underlying skill and subtlty in Satir's work. Having said that, as an introduction to Satir's work (which may well be all that the author intended) I found the book thoroughly intriguing. So much so that I went straight out to get a couple of Satir's original texts.
On that basis, as a brief and useful introduction to Virginia Satir's ideas and techniques:
Strongly recommended * * * * *
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New Peoplemaking

Categorie : Virginia Satir (ENG)
Auteur : Virginia M. Satir
ISBN : 0831400706
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Omschrijving : An "Honest Abe's NLP Emporium" Book Review - Reproduced with permission.
Written and Produced by Andy Bradbury; author of "Develop Your NLP Skills", "NLP for Business Success", etc. Virginia Satir's ideas were key elements in the development of NLP. This book is probably the best introduction to those ideas in their most mature form.
Those who have read Satir's other key work - Conjoint Family Therapy, a remarkably dry and pedestrian text - may be wary of letting themselves in for more of the same. Fear not! The New Peoplemaking is as different from the earlier book as poached salmon is different from fish fingers.
Originally published in 1972 as Peoplemaking (which itself sold 700,000 copies), The New Peoplemaking was released in 1988, an updated, revised and expanded version of the earlier book.
On the face of it, Satir was simply writing a book about parenting:
"The family is the context in which a person ... develops. And the adults in charge are the peoplemakers."
(Italics as in the original)
What it serves to do, for the perceptive reader, goes far beyond this simple description, however:
"I have learned from my work, and learning opens up new possibilities and new directions for discovery. It is now clear to me that the family is a microcosm of the world. To understand the world, we can study the family: issues such as power, intimacy, autonomy, trust and communication skills are vital parts underlying how we live in the world."
Read this book because of the light it throws on the development of NLP.
Read this book because it offers a penetrating yet empathetic study of the very foundations of modern society.
Read the book because it may help you to develop your parenting skills.
Read the book because it may give you better understanding of yourself.
Read the book for any reason you like - just as long as you read it.
Very highly recommended * * * * * * *
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Satir Step by Step: A Guide to Creating Change in Families

Categorie : Virginia Satir (ENG)
Auteur : Michele Baldwin, Virginia M. Satir, Michelle Baldwin
ISBN : 0831400684
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Omschrijving : An "Honest Abe's NLP Emporium" Book Review - Reproduced with permission.
Written and Produced by Andy Bradbury; author of "Develop Your NLP Skills", "NLP for Business Success", etc.
The main text of this book is some 250 pages long, divided into two parts:
Part 1 (140+ pages) is the annotated transcript of a demonstration session with a family of two parents and 5 children.
Part 2 (100+ pages) is a general review of Virginia Satir's ideas, the beliefs and values that underpinned her approach, and so on, authored by Michele Baldwin.
If you aren't particularly familiar with Satir's work and you're exploring her role as one of the key contributors to NLP (and, I suspect, to 'Core Transformation'), or are simply interested in her legacy to the field of Family Therapy, then I thoroughly recommend this book.
I would, however, point you to Baldwin’s suggestions on how to approach the text:
- Read Part 2 first, then go back and read Part 1;
- The first time through Part 1, read the left-hand pages only (that is the transcripyt of the video) to get an overall view of how the session develops. Then read it through again, including the commentary on the right-hand pages.
As a near novice as far as Satir's work is concerned I certainly found this approach worked well for me.
If you already have a good grasp of Satir's ideas and techniques then I suspect that you will find very little that is new here.
We are told, on the back cover blurb:
"For the first time we have a description of many of Virginia Satir's basic concepts and techniques including the Seed Model, Family Reconstruction and Parts Parties."
These 'descriptions' are not quite all that the blurb suggests. As Baldwin explains at the start of Chapter 6:
"Rather than writing a step-by-step description of the techniques, I have explained the context in which they are used and what they try to accomplish."
What Baldwin is really aiming for, I think, is to get readers to think about how we might personally use these ideas, rather than simply dishing them up on the proverbial plate, and that's surely no bad thing.
Moreover, the heavily annotated transcript - with commentary from both Satir and Baldwin - is a fascinating insight on how Satir began to guide the family towards an ability to develop more open and honest relationships - and some practical negotiating skills - for their individual and mutual benefit, rather than simply beating the living daylights out of each other.
As a very practical introduction to Satir's valuable insights and techniques: Strongly Recommended * * * * * *
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The secrets of Satir : collected sayings of Virginia Satir

Categorie : Virginia Satir (ENG)
Auteur : Sharon Loeschen
ISBN : 0962750166
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Omschrijving : An "Honest Abe's NLP Emporium" Book Review - Reproduced with permission.
Written and Produced by Andy Bradbury; author of "Develop Your NLP Skills", "NLP for Business Success", etc. Is this the book that exposes the nifty techniques and arcane knowledge that underpinned Virginia Satir's success as a family therapist? Not exactly. As the author explains in the brief introduction:
"The book is a collection of Virginia's sayings - or as I prefer to call them, her 'secrets'. Virginia discovered many of the universal principals of how and why people behave the way they do. and she shared these during her trainings. The opportunity to gain her 'secrets' firsthand was lost with her death, so I decided to share the ones I have collected through this book."
What we actually get is 72 of these 'secrets', in a text that spans 153 pages. I say "spans" because there aren't 153 pages of text, only 72 (the other pages are either blank or carry just the section number and title or, in the majority of cases, one of a series of 72 deliberately (?) crude, rather lifeless flower drawings which allegedly "beautifully [capture] the feelings of Virginia's sayings".
Not for this reader they didn't.
The sayings, none longer than a sentence or two, are grouped under five headings:
- Families (27 quotes)
- Self Worth (10)
- Communication (12)
- Feelings (10)
- Change (13)
As is often the case when a pupil offers an evaluation of their teacher's wisdom, without the benefit of guidance from the teacher, the selection of quotations ranges from the genuinely insightful, such as:
"You don't have to completely let go of one thing to gain something new. We can add rather than discard."
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"How we got to be a certain way is important for our understanding, but it doesn't fix us."
(though commonplace today, these notions were seriously at odds with the orthodox wisdom of the therapeutic community in their day)
to the totally unoriginal and banal
"The only real certainty in life is change."
The commentary supplied by the author, though interesting enough in parts, adds little to the explanations in the companion volume The Magic of Satir (also reviewed on this site).
Had the two books been thoughtfully merged into one we might well have got a result that was more valuable than the mere sum of its parts. Unfortunately that is not the case, and I found little reason to recommend this book, either in conjunction with The Magic of Satir (in my opinion a considerably more useful text) or in its own right.
Limited Recommendation: * * *
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